What to do when dating two guys
This is unfamiliar territory, and it is perfectly natural to have questions. Here are a few tips and tricks for juggling two people — or more! I had a friend in college who happened to be dating two people at the same time for over a year.The deception in and of itself was bad enough, as she was forging deep connections with both, but the worst part?Insisting that a man date you exclusively while he’s dating you sends him the signal that you are special, that you deserve love and care and respect. In my many years of matchmaking I’ve found that the one thing that’s gotten even the most confirmed bachelors off the fence and into marriage are women with inner self-confidence – no matter how quiet or soft they are – that insist on being treated the way they would treat their partner – with exclusive attention. Ziva Kramer, MA has been an international matchmaker, dating coach and spiritual advisor for professional singles for many years.Known for her honesty, candor, and for passing out wisdom that people trust.Ever been at a party or a function where someone is talking to you, but at the same time scanning the room looking for someone else to talk to? I can also date multiple people and still make the right choice. Dating multiple people has significantly disabled bachelors and bachelorettes from focusing on the people sitting right in front of them.
Just last month, I met a cute guy and we went out and had so much fun together. Now it’s been a month and we’ve gone out four times.There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.When someone is dating multiple people and not focusing on you, time is passing by.If you’re dating a guy for two months and he is still not exclusive with you, you need to take a sober look at how you’re using your precious dating time.